Hi Luke
Growing melas in the ground can be a rewarding exercise. I've done it with a few and am happy with the results.
Regarding soil: it just needs to be well draining. If it isn't, don't just dig a hole and fill it with bonsai soil, as the 'hole' will have the tendency to act like a bowl and fill with water and may cause root rot. If the garden soil is heavy, dig in compost/sand and the like in a volume around at least 50cm x 50cm x 50 cm.
I dug around the edges of my trees every 2-3 years, using a shovel pushed vertically down full lenth to cut side roots at about 30-40 cm from the trunk. I also did my best to lift the tree to break any tap roots, but only as far as needed to do this and set it right back where it came from, firmed the soil, watered. The tops were trimmed back, with some idea of styling, especially for the main branches. Once melas get some girth on trunk/branch, they can be hard to bend as they may become brittle and then break. It depends a bit on the species. Also pay attention to the roots coming off the trunk. They will also thicken. If they are not positioned where you may like them, you probably won't be able to move them later.
I wouldn't heap the soil higher than you will have it in the pot. Depending on the species, if it is a 'paper bark', the 'paper' may not develop under the soil and when you dig it up and expose the buried part of the trunk, it will be significanly narrower than that above where the paper has formed - a different colour as well. It can take 10 years to equalise the upper and lower bits! Though some remedial work might shorten this somewhat too. The top pruning is like pruning in a pot - reduce it to take account of the roots you have cut. If you leave too much on top, it could suffer die back where you don't want it.
good luck and have fun
K