This is a bit of a n00b question to ask after having bonsai for over a year, but im still a bit confused on this one. Obviously young trees need to grow, but i've been watching some video's again with the new growing season hitting, and i keep running into two types of videos/techniques.
Theres the whole thing about cutting back longer branches to 1-3 leaves. I get the concept of doing that, causing lots of smaller branches to come off etc... but then i watch some videos and they say just let it grow for a few years. .. which seems a bit pointless to me, why buy a bonsai just to shove it in a corner and never touch it..

None of the videos seem to say if there is an age of the tree when you shouldnt be pruning it back to 1-3 leaves, and when you should be letting it grow, even if just for a season. I've even found videos when you can see bald patches along the longer branches where its been left too long and then they just chop of the entire branch anyway to get growth further down.
I understand the bonsai concept of cutting back to 1-3 leaves every 2-3 months in the growing season alot more than the wild growing in my opinion. Forcing it small and letting it thicken up over time.
Now obviously you wouldnt do it a <12 month old, but would you start cutting but straglers on a 2yr old? 4yr old?
Cheers in advance all!