To start with, I want to borrow from CJ(newzealandteatree)'s blog:
Additionally, from browsing all the info I could find here, they do not back bud at all.Some general guidelines on handling them are
1. Always keep the top soil moist.
2. Never completely defoliate.
3. No bare-rooting. Clean cut for root reduction.
4. Feed them well.
5. Protect them from intense heat.

I have found conflicting information on pruning, anywhere from they die if you touch them to they respond well to pruning. I can't comment because I don't have any experience. Yet. Just bought two though so I will update as I experiment.
Lastly, I want to ask about soil. It seems they need to be moist and drying out at all can lead to instant death, so what type of soil have people used? Thanks!